
Didn blog for about a week le... was rather busy this week... weekdays i was busy with the tutorials i've to complete. on sat which was the day b4 ytd .. went out with my sc,sb... none of the yr 1 except me went... hahs .. but it was quite fun afterall... met jasmine and alan at 2.30pm at orchard mrt station and decided to watch movie at ps instead so took bus there... waited for edwin and ian til bout 3.30!!! hahs then we ate at the foodcourt. i ordered fried dong fen( smth like bee hoon liddat) then its like the whole portion abt 3/4 is tao gei...(bean sprout) zzzzz... so i left half the portion ... heh.. wanted to watch narnia but wasnt out yet so go for indiana jones instead... but all filled upp... i wanted iron man... but onli me and alan haben watch all others watch liaos. so we went to cathay instead... we settled on chocolate which was at abt 6.15 pm... and it was onli 4 plus at tht time.. edwin left for his church and joining us after our movie..we went to starbucks and each settled on a drink and wasted time til 6. after movie met edwin... they suggested pool at toa payoh... but it was like 8 plus liaos... so i say no... ( actually i dunno how to play also..=X wanted to learn... sm one say'll teach me... dunno true not... ) then we head to esplanade... ate at makan sutra... shared satay and sat in font of victoria concert hall there and chat abt lame things.. heh. then took some photos... ian head home there and we walk to the bustop at esplanade there to take bus... they suggested nxt outing to be night safari... hey tht wuld be fun!!! haha... i'm waiting... hahs i reached home at abt 12 plus am ... bro went tu busstop to fetch me..=))
Today i went to je lib to 'study' nth nuch went in to my head actually... mind is preoccupied with smth... QQ keep asking me to go walk walk... so we went walking lorr... at abt 1215 we left... we took 51 back to west coast... stop one stop b4 whr we shuld alight and went to play the swings instead... wah.. how i miss those swings... stil rmb e times when me and yun fang went there after sch or after our exams to relax... we swing swing swing... the higher i swing all the more my worries get swing out for tht moment... and i free frm stress... but sm times we'll go there when we are troubled over certain things... today i went back there ... reminisce the past... me and QQ talked abt evrything... hahs.. yea ..got to the subject of love... HOW wuld u ppl define love???
Someone told me he'd a diff kind of love maybe coz he's a Christian....i think so too... i'll elaborate y i think so ltr.. but for me at this point of time in my life... as a teenager i think love is a special feeling, an affection for tht special someone...tht brings 2 tgt... yes .. i agree tht feeling wil fade thus its comittment, compromise, love, sacrifice giving in and more tht last a couple thru the very end... and it takes 2 person to work on it inorder for tht relationship to be a success... ok back to y i think i agree tht he as a christian have a diff love from maybe me..(me wuld be a better word than others) i think evryone wuld have a diff definition of love... for him he say love is unconditional... if a gal vry vry good to him ... he might consider marrying her .. coz love is unconditional... i think ... their love for god is unconditional... tht can be understooded..=) but does the same kind of love applies tu yr future partner too? unconditonal as in what? u dun expect any returns? but if u really really love tht someone of coz u wuld hope he wuld reciprocate.... wuld u love someone and does a lot of thing for him/her until u die??? even if he/she is married le? u wun expect anything in return? if not then why are u doing so much?what i'm trying to say is... unconditional love tht christian have for god is it the same type of love for their future spouse??? just like the way u love yr family members is diff from the kind of love u have for yr gf/bf. tht's my perception la... maybe my kind of love is too shallow... hahs ...
Someone asked me... liying... wuld u convert to islam if yr future husband is a malay??? i say no. she asked y? if u love him ..y not??? for me ... my belief is tht if 2 person really love each other no matter what religion... they cant be seperated ONLY if mutual respect is present... if u respect yr spouse religion ya i think it wuld be ok... hahs i'm a freethinker myself... i belief in evrything... i like cultural things and i like to know about other religion and race.. i dun mind going to mosque...temple...church....hindu temple... hahs ... coz i think its so interesting...heh..
not onli religion bah... its the same for race i guess... tht's why u see indian and chinese couple and so many diff mixture of race... but i think most imptantly is how they view and respect each other religion and their family backgrd... if the family doesn support of their relationship ...its gona be so hard ... but i know of a couple tht got tgt in the very end... sweet isnt it? like fairy tale cum true...
sia la.. my post rather long... hahs so much to say hor me. heh. yupp tht's it for today... whooo... hope i can really concentrate on studying for my upcoming CTs .. =))