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Saturday, May 03, 2008

Today went grocery shopping hahas... sort of enjoyed it... putting the things u like into the shopping trolley..=) hahas. nothing much today .. jus sort of slack ard..=P ... Btw.. exams comming le..=( i's on 30th may... haix.. so fast eh... time really passes in a flash...

when i came online there's this friend of mine.. quarrelled with gf and ask me for help..hahs.. well it goes like this..
he: she say she tink i got other gals outside then she also go get new bf...
me: any idea why she said tht? coz she is jealous ... thus u muz understand...
he: i lost my temper
me: ya... actually she said tht to spite u coz she really love u ...she's afraid of losing u thus she'll
say things tu spite u and hoping tht u will say smth tu make her feel more at ease. Think...
if u had make her feel tht she's loved .. she wun get jealous so easily and will definitely
trust u more...
he: ya ... evrytime i make a new female friend she wuld say a lot of things jus to spite me..
me: see... coz she's really afraid of losing u ..
he: butt i am angry at what she say
me:ya u're angry coz she sae she'll go find a new bf to spite u... i think it always take 2 hands
clap. If she feel secure she wun sae tht ... she wun sae .. u wun angry. maybe u 2 can take
time tu sit down and talk it out... but no quarrels ... once u 2 start to quarrel...stop! leave it
for nxt time..
he: how am i going tu talk tu her since i'm the one who lost my temper first?
me: well... if u really love her.. apologise first ! u are the guy.. take the first move..thou it might
not be yr fault in this case.. butt if u explain tu her tht u understand why she said tht and
thus why u had lost yr temper... i believe she'll sae sorry too... coz she too love u ... in a
relationship it takes two to give in order to last... u 2 have my blessing..

hahs.. hope he wun mind me posing this coversation.. ( rest assure i wun devulge yr name..=) )
well... sometimes i see couple friends of mine quarreling over minor things... its sort of a happiness isn't it... its better than there is no brickering and all... then when both made it upp.. they had went a step further in their relationship.. coz they had understand each other more and able tu love each other more... those who usually truly love each other .. their love will endure til marrige and til death... "till death wil us part"... =) thats the way it shuld be isn't it?
well guys ... i think guys shuld take initiative in most things... to jio the gal... to pacify ( tho not unreasonably) to ask for date ... to most things... isn't it? dun tell me u eexpect the gal tu do those things... ya maybe some gals will... yes to express their feelings for the guy she realli likes maybe butt for me... i think i wun go to the extend to do things i think shuld be the guy doing... coz guys in that way will be more protective? dunno wads the word... butt just think that gal shuld do those... if not .. if its the gal who does all the asking and all... the gal wuld eventually be dorminating in tht paticular relationship... hey bring out yr guts... ask... dun be shy... if not u'll miss the oppotunity and miss her forever... =)

it ended @ 11:43 PM

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